Prithivirajan arranged
a placement for me at KUDUMBAM. We decided we wanted to marry and I
obtained my father's consent. My husband then became an Editor with
the R.T. Rajan, RUSHA project at Vellore. I stayed with KUDUMBAM for
the next four years where the chief functionary, Mr Oswald Quintal and
his wife Mrs Johnsi were quite supportive to me. My husband and I both
lived on the site but my husband changed jobs again to work with RECO
(Rural Education for Community Organisation), a grass roots organisation
formed by a team of youth working in coastal areas. I then joined him
there and for the first time we had our own dwelling although we shared
meals with our colleagues. We lived there until 1989. In 1988 my husband
started an organisation named KURUKSHETRA and started working with poor
people near Chinnaiyachatram.
In 1989 he established
the BharathEnvironment Seva Team based at Pudukottai and started addressing
the environmental concerns of farmers. He set up the AVVAI Farm at Chinnaiyachatram
in 1990. That same year a fire destroyed the farm buildings causing
us much hardship. He helped many people, including Mrs Amutha Jayaram,
Mr Adhiyaman, Mrs Kanaka, Mr Jeevandandam, Mr Palanichami and Mr Francis
from among the communities to become development workers, and now they
are all heading organisations helping farmers in the district. I supported
my husband but my role in development became marginalised.
In 1992 we had a
lovely son who we named Krishna Bharath and he is now studying sixth
standard. In 1994 my husband facilitated the formation of an NGO network
named ROOTS. In 1998 he died of a heart attack.
I rejoined KURUKSHETRA to continue the work he had started and with
the help of women colleagues and friends started working among farmers,
women and children in 10 villages in the Pudukottai District